Providing a reflection back to someone’s worldview and what you notice as a way to understanding and unity 

• Reflecting back but asking for clarity 
• Not giving advice 
• It’s not about convincing, it’s about creating a shared understanding 
• Offering your own experience to help create unity in understanding 
• Your input or experience should not be shoved it into someone but be aware of when it makes sense to offer in dialogue
• Be aware of language to extend the experience of holding another’s worldview 
• Often others are trying to play forward their decisions, you can just help them see it if relevant 

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