Kindly inviting people to challenge their compulsions and find the real answer 

• Sometimes asking questions in a pointed way helps them process - it’s not about the answer, it’s about the process 
• Compulsions can come out in people (which are just ideas baked in culture vs. what we actually desire and believe) 
• People often think they are too confusing to be seen, understood, etc. But we want people to know they are worth pursuing and you are not giving up on them

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