We should be interested in people’s hearts more than their heads 

• Sometimes relief can be needed from being too much in the heart
• We should be interested in people’s hearts more than their heads 
• One therapeutic note: asking how old people are when something happens can bring clarity 
• Note on when to cut it
• The easiest way to talk about things is in the head but then we miss how their heart was holding it 
• We invite into heart not forcefully: What is best for them right now? 
• Ask permission when entering back into things

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